I Just Want Someone To Cuddle
I recently came to the conclusion that, when it comes to my love life, I don’t quite yet know what I want. Actually, it’s more that I want a lot of different things, depending on the day, the hour, the...
View ArticleDating Don’ts: Is It A Booty Call Or Nah?
We’ve all been there. Someone you were hot and heavy with will suddenly disappear, as if wiped from this earth, only to reappear in the form of a typo-laden text message one night while you’re doing a...
View ArticleDater X: Let’s Get It On
I know, I know, you’ve all been waiting with bated breath to find out if Scar Twin and I got it on. And BOY, DID WE. You see, after I quite cathartically wrote to you all about my dilemma last week, it...
View ArticleDater XY: I’ve Got A Booty Call Plus
Welcome to our new weekly column Dater XY! Our anonymous MALE dater will be revealing the adventures and misadventures of finding love from a dude’s point of view. Let’s give him a big welcome! With a...
View Article10 Things No One Tells Men That Will Make Them Better Lovers
There are many reasons why men don’t necessarily know what women really like in bed. The most important: a lack of access to real information. Movies oversimplify sex by not really showing what happens...
View ArticleDater X: I Think I’m Ready For A Friend With Benefits
I’ve had a high sex drive since I was a teenager. Over the last 14 years, whether single or coupled up, I’ve been fortunate enough to never really go ‘sexless.’ In relationships— whether they last...
View Article13 People Confess Their Thoughts On Using Smartphones During Sex
Remember that episode from the first season of “Sex and the City” (which, go back and watch sometime, because the first season of that show was pretty special) when Miranda called her ex Skipper and he...
View ArticleDater X: The Best Sex Of My Life
Excuse me while I wander around the lovely landscape of cloud nine, because I had the best sex of my life this weekend and I’m still up here enjoying the high. So, let’s bring it back a week. After my...
View ArticleDating Don’ts: 10 Places To Have Sex, Ranked From Best To Worst
Most people have sex in the pedestrian enclaves of their bedroom, on a Wednesday night, after prime-time television but before “The Daily Show.” It’s a simple affair, but it’s beautiful, because it...
View ArticleGoats In Lust: They’re Just Like Us!
We’d all like to think we’ve evolved way past our animal antecedents, having transcended the baser survival instincts that propelled us from the primordial ooze to this moment. These very instincts...
View ArticleDater XY: The Post-Sex Guilt Date
A woman I’ll call The Chewer (it’ll make sense soon) and I first messaged each other shortly after things ended with The Teacher over a two months ago. We hit it off as she was about to relocate to my...
View ArticleDater X: On “Transparency Sex”& What’s Different This Time Around
To me, sex is much more than just a biological need. Humanity relies on sex for procreation, but the vast majority of the world also turns to sex for pleasure and release. Some people have sex simply...
View ArticleDater XY: How To Deal With Dating Fatigue
Dating. It’s a hard knock life. You start out excited about the possibilities and hit the ground running. This excitement eventually fades to fatigue as you continue to go out with new individuals...
View ArticleDater X: 10 Red Flags & Warning Signs That I Look For When I’m Dating
Every new relationship comes with its own bag of possibilities and pitfalls. We approach new romance hopefully, keeping our eyes peeled for warning signs and red flags that might tip us off about a...
View ArticleYo, Facebook, Please Stop Suggesting I Friend A Bunch Of Random Dudes I Don’t...
The other day I noticed something kind of strange about the “People You Might Know” list on my Facebook account. In addition to the usual array of strangers or acquaintances with whom I share mutual...
View Article7 Signs It’s Time To Turn Your Friend With Benefits Into Just A Friend
We’ve all been there: You meet someone where the chemistry is so on point that you can’t seem to resist getting into the tangled web that is friends with benefits. You know s/he’s wrong for you and you...
View ArticleWanderlust: 8 Types Of Guys To Avoid On An Island Vacation
Solo traveling can be a great opportunity to meet cool adventurers, especially for single ladies looking to spice up their love lives or have a little fun with dudes with foreign accents. Yes, travel...
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