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Ask A Married Guy: “He Texts Me All The Time, But I Want More!”
I have been talking to a guy since February (I’ve known him for over a year). He texts me sweet messages and basically texts me all day long every single day. We have hung out a few times and we did...
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25 Sex Oopsies That Happen To The Best Of Us
As much as we’d all like to believe we’re smooth operators in the bedroom, sometimes shit happens that can prevent us from being our suavest selves during sex. (Seriously though, literal shit can...
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Dating Don’ts: Get Yourself A Spring Fling!
The long cold winter of our discontent has finally started to ease its grip on most of the country. If you live on the East Coast, you’ve most likely been buried in a never-ending pile of snow and...
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True Story: I’m A Travel Writer Who Has Never Had A Vacation Hookup
I’m a travel writer. I’ve visited Seoul, Santiago, and Vancouver in the past few months alone. My job sounds pretty glamorous on paper: I get to sample exotic foods, visit locations that others own...
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What I Learned From My First One-Night Stand (In My 40s)
Raised as a fundamental Christian in a patriarchal society, I married the first man I slept with. Before my wedding, my feisty Irish Grandma Pat had asked me why I wanted to marry so young and sign up...
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Ask A Married Guy: “Will My Boyfriend Get Over The Fact That I Hooked Up With...
I’ve been dating this guy for a while now and last night he called me while he was with his friends. Our conversation was normal until he suddenly asked, “Did you hook up with one of my friends?” I...
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Study Finds That Beer Goggles Are An Actual Thing (As If We Had Any Doubts)
Surprise! Researchers from the University of Bristol found in a study that booze really does make you find people more attractive than you would if you were sober. Yes, beer goggles are real— even...
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Dater X: State Of The Union
I’ve always been told that true love will find you when you’re least expecting it. I’ve always thought that was a load of bullshit. Like I’m supposed to believe that right after you, for example,...
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PurrVerse: Getting Lucky With San Francisco’s Hook-Up Truck
I live in San Francisco, land of art, sexual experimentation, and entrepreneurial spirit. Since I’ve moved here I’ve explored the boundaries between public and private sex in multiple ways – in the...
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Frisky Rant: On Dudes Who Ghost And Then Suddenly Text Me Every Six Months Or So
“Hey.” “Hey you.” “What’s up?” “Yo.” “Heyyyy.” These are the types of messages I’ve been getting from former flings and lovers about every six months or so. And I’m fucking sick and tired of it. If you...
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Now Available For XXX Enthusiasts: Just-For-Porn Headphones
If you’re sick of watching porn and having to lower the volume for fear that your roommate/partner/neighbors will hear all of those sensual moans and groans, have we got good news for you! A Taiwanese...
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The 10 Best Hookup Websites
Whether you’re freshly divorced and just dipping your toes back into the singles pool, or if you’ve been wading in the deep end for years, you’d likely be intrigued by a list purporting to lead you by...
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Funny Girl Sex Guide: 5 Underrated Sex Acts Worth Giving Another Shot
I’m a pretty open-minded chick and the last few months have involved quite a bit of open-legged-ness as well. This sort of slutty period in my life has been both fun and educational, not to mention...
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There Are 237 Reasons People Have Sex, According To Science
I would naively assume that the main reason a person would have sex would be simply because they wanted to. As it turns out, there are a whole slew of complicated reasons why people have sex. The...
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Dating Don’ts: How To Juggle Dating Multiple People At The Same Time
There comes a time in everybody’s dating career when your dance card suddenly becomes fuller than you know what to do with. One day, you’re swiping sullenly through Tinder bemoaning the lack of...
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Girl Talk: Some Thoughts On Fingering
From the time I learned what fingering was at age 11, it sounded not that great to me, and that didn’t really change for about 15 years. Even the idea of fingering (or “fingerbanging,” yikes) sounded...
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Your Ultimate Guide To Having Sex In Public (Without Getting Caught!)
I hate admitting that I even have a bucket list in the first place, but I do and there are many things on it, and I hope to eventually cross all most of them off. While I know “Yoko-ing” a band and...
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Random Hookups Are Actually Good For You, Says Science
In a study called Who Benefits From Casual Sex? The Moderating Role of Sociosexuality, researchers found that, “having casual sex was associated with higher self-esteem and life satisfaction and lower...
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How To Be Cool On A Sex Date
There’s nothing worse than being on a date, one that’s not too exciting, and just wishing it could end in sex. It’s as though you’re counting down the minutes, maybe even weighing the social graces of...
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True Story: In Defense Of Revenge Sex
When my first love and I broke up, I was still new to the world of sex. I was 22 years old when we said our tearful goodbye, knowing full well that what we had at that young age wouldn’t be able to...
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The 8-Step Guide To Getting Laid This Weekend
I’m so sick of men saying that all you need to get laid is “to be a woman.” If that were truly the case, would all women, everywhere, be getting laid at all times whenever and however they want? Yes....
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8 Signs You Fail At Flirting
Fair warning, I don’t know how to flirt either. But I do know how to fail at it! To that end, here are eight definite signs that you don’t know how to flirt. Employ none of these, and you will be on a...
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Dater X: To Bang Or Not To Bang?
In the lifecycle of dating, there’s a black hole smack dab in the middle of “I’m talking to someone” and “He’s my boyfriend,” that I like to call Exclusivity Limbo. I’ve been in that spot before and...
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I Just Want Someone To Cuddle
I recently came to the conclusion that, when it comes to my love life, I don’t quite yet know what I want. Actually, it’s more that I want a lot of different things, depending on the day, the hour, the...
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Dating Don’ts: Is It A Booty Call Or Nah?
We’ve all been there. Someone you were hot and heavy with will suddenly disappear, as if wiped from this earth, only to reappear in the form of a typo-laden text message one night while you’re doing a...
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Dater X: Let’s Get It On
I know, I know, you’ve all been waiting with bated breath to find out if Scar Twin and I got it on. And BOY, DID WE. You see, after I quite cathartically wrote to you all about my dilemma last week, it...
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Dater XY: I’ve Got A Booty Call Plus
Welcome to our new weekly column Dater XY! Our anonymous MALE dater will be revealing the adventures and misadventures of finding love from a dude’s point of view. Let’s give him a big welcome! With a...
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10 Things No One Tells Men That Will Make Them Better Lovers
There are many reasons why men don’t necessarily know what women really like in bed. The most important: a lack of access to real information. Movies oversimplify sex by not really showing what happens...
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Dater X: I Think I’m Ready For A Friend With Benefits
I’ve had a high sex drive since I was a teenager. Over the last 14 years, whether single or coupled up, I’ve been fortunate enough to never really go ‘sexless.’ In relationships— whether they last...
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13 People Confess Their Thoughts On Using Smartphones During Sex
Remember that episode from the first season of “Sex and the City” (which, go back and watch sometime, because the first season of that show was pretty special) when Miranda called her ex Skipper and he...
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Dater X: The Best Sex Of My Life
Excuse me while I wander around the lovely landscape of cloud nine, because I had the best sex of my life this weekend and I’m still up here enjoying the high. So, let’s bring it back a week. After my...
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Dating Don’ts: 10 Places To Have Sex, Ranked From Best To Worst
Most people have sex in the pedestrian enclaves of their bedroom, on a Wednesday night, after prime-time television but before “The Daily Show.” It’s a simple affair, but it’s beautiful, because it...
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Goats In Lust: They’re Just Like Us!
We’d all like to think we’ve evolved way past our animal antecedents, having transcended the baser survival instincts that propelled us from the primordial ooze to this moment. These very instincts...
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Dater XY: The Post-Sex Guilt Date
A woman I’ll call The Chewer (it’ll make sense soon) and I first messaged each other shortly after things ended with The Teacher over a two months ago. We hit it off as she was about to relocate to my...
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Dater X: On “Transparency Sex”& What’s Different This Time Around
To me, sex is much more than just a biological need. Humanity relies on sex for procreation, but the vast majority of the world also turns to sex for pleasure and release. Some people have sex simply...
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Dater XY: How To Deal With Dating Fatigue
Dating. It’s a hard knock life. You start out excited about the possibilities and hit the ground running. This excitement eventually fades to fatigue as you continue to go out with new individuals...
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Dater X: 10 Red Flags & Warning Signs That I Look For When I’m Dating
Every new relationship comes with its own bag of possibilities and pitfalls. We approach new romance hopefully, keeping our eyes peeled for warning signs and red flags that might tip us off about a...
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Yo, Facebook, Please Stop Suggesting I Friend A Bunch Of Random Dudes I Don’t...
The other day I noticed something kind of strange about the “People You Might Know” list on my Facebook account. In addition to the usual array of strangers or acquaintances with whom I share mutual...
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7 Signs It’s Time To Turn Your Friend With Benefits Into Just A Friend
We’ve all been there: You meet someone where the chemistry is so on point that you can’t seem to resist getting into the tangled web that is friends with benefits. You know s/he’s wrong for you and you...
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Wanderlust: 8 Types Of Guys To Avoid On An Island Vacation
Solo traveling can be a great opportunity to meet cool adventurers, especially for single ladies looking to spice up their love lives or have a little fun with dudes with foreign accents. Yes, travel...
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